Thanks for your tips and hints,Briggy`s girl and Sangie.It`s actually my cousin`s little boy getting Baptised,but I don`t see them very often,she married a greek fellow,and has adopted alot of greek customs,even though she is Australian,I didn`t go to her first born boys Baptism as I was in hossy having my own bub,so i had no idea what to expect,tbh,i realy don`t feel like going with my tribe of kids,even though they are good kids,seems like they carry on with alot of stuff.thanks again.