MD, the book of coupons is a lovely idea for a spouse - ones for a massage, night off cleaning up etc
Bummer about the books. I just sent a family photo over to Aus for my father and the postage was only a few dollars less than the present! I left the post shop feeling slightly molested!

We don't do presents for extended family. We only buy for our parents and our brothers. Parents get a photo product, brothers get a card with cash. My Nana was a big fan of only buying for the kids, they are the ones that really enjoy Christmas and I hate buying a present for the sake of buying a present iykwim