1. finish some home work my counsellor encouraged me to do, which will be good for me emotionally.
I've made myself a template, and now just need to do the actual feelings bit ... wish me luck - I'm aiming for tomorrow ... I'm thinking of having DH drop me off with my laptop at a cafe, and giving me (say) two hours before he gets me - then I'll have no internet, no TV, no DS, no housework, no shopping ... no distractions! Just 2 hours to do this work ...

2. make time to play with my son outside more - there's a park nearby, and fresh air is great!
it's been hot, so I've been playing with him more inside ... might try the back yard at my parents' on Sunday after lunch ...?

3. get DS's new room ready! yes, before New Years.
no - I need my brother to collect his new (our old) desk so I can start moving furniture ... if it's not happening this weekend, then I'm going to ask DH to dismantle it and put it in the attic, and I'll just start anyway! no more excuses

4. finish getting DS's baby book up to date!
DONE !! Both of them