Great advice ZB!

Can I specifically add, please, whatever you do, DON'T drink and drive, or let a loved one do so....

And, on a lighter, note, if your MIL/SIL/Mother/sister/etc is giving you the absolute irits over the holiday season, take a deep breath, count to ten and remember.... 'tis the season to be jolly and show goodwill to all (even rabid rellies!). Failing that, there's always the BB Boo Hoo Room waiting for you when you get home