thread: santa- is he real in your house?

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2006
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    You know what? I'm glad we don't worship the fat man. We've chosen our God and will be remembering the birth of His son in December. May not be the right time but as humans we love celebration, that has to be a God-given need to celebrate, so let's remember the time that Jesus came to earth. We commemmorate his death at Easter, why not commemorate his birth too? Jesus' birth (well, conception) is no less miraculous than... actually, conception full stop, but God sent His son... I want to remember that!

    Magic... is strictly forbidden in the Bible. No "magic of Christmas" at our house. We'll have lots of fun, maybe get snow (we're up with my Mum this year), see family, yes we'll have presents but we won't be lying about from whence they came and tbh DS has already had most of what would have been his "Christmas presents" if I agreed with letting him get excited about a toy then not letting him play with it for months, but we won't be lying and we won't be boring either.

    Imagination. I love imagining things. DS and I play imaginative games together - we pretend things, boxes become all sorts of fun things, we laugh, we have SO MUCH fun! We don't need to buy into a corporate lie to do that though. We can pretend that the soft toy bunnies are alive and playing our bouncy game with us WITHOUT us thinking they're really alive. Do I want to stimulate DS's imagination that a stranger is creeping around our house, in DS's room even, and that's OK? No I do not!

    I know I'm coming from a fairly strict Christian perspective here; I just want to tell you what I do because I don't want people thinking I'm mean for not having Santa (yup, banning him as well, tbh it's so associated with greed atm I didn't like Santa pre-DS either). We have other great things which don't involve lying and do involve God. But we chose to follow God, not everyone has, others follow other traditions, I don't want to preach but I did want to put my viewpoint across.

  2. #2
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    Jul 2007
    Over the rainbow
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    And if he did we had to call it a Hannukah Bush!!!
    I have never heard of a Hannukah Bush!! Smart mother

    Each to their own RF That is what makes the world interesting ... that we all think about stuff differently, that even though I'm christian too ... I see no problem with having a "santa" Christmas. We usually gather in the living room, my dad reads us the story of Jesus's birth, we sings some songs (when we were young we played piano/did the whole nativity play) we talk a bit about what is important ... love, trust, family ... we pray together and then we give gifts. After that we sit down for a family dinner that usually ends after 4-5 hours of laughter and fun.
    I love the way you express yourself in your post and how solid you are in your beliefs, it's commendable.

  3. #3
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    Dec 2007
    Adelaide, SA
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    Yes we have Santa here, although DD is thinking he is not so real. A friend at school told her its not Santa its your Mum and Dad up at midnight putting the presents under the tree, she replied no way my Mum is alseep then...

    Like Astrolady our tree will go up on the weekend when the Christmas pageant is on and Santa comes to town.

    While we have Santa, we too also celebrate the birth of Jesus. We place out our nativity scene on the coffee table and we have a candlight one that goes in the front window.
    I love christmas, its a time to be thankful and for me to spend some great quality time with my family together.
    Oh and by the way i saw the most gorgeous fisher price nativity scene for the little ones