Oh, i'm sorry that's how you feel. I certainly did not take it as an attack and my reply was not a justification or defense of my actions. It's just how i feel and how things are done around our house. You are entirely entitled to feel the way you do. I'm sorry you feel upset by the responses, mine and pretty sure all of the others were certainly not intended that way. I was actually thinking the responses might make feel better about it, seeings as lots of other women tell the santa story with no guilt.

There are plenty of people on here who don't 'do' Santa. There is a thread on it. Maybe you'll get the type of support you are after there. Pretty sure, no one was out to hurt your feelings.