Awww..i wouldnt tell him either. He will find out when he is ready. Weve had a natural progression out of Santa believers. Jess stopped at the end of year 6, so 11.5 but we talked to her about how it is so important to keep the magic alive. Its a bit of a joke for us about what shes going to ask Santa for. Em is starting to question a little bit but even at 11 shes still so in love with the whole process I dont think she will question much. I think its lovely to keep it going for as long as they are ready to believe it. I personally wouldnt interfere. My friend's son was told at 5 because she wanted to have an open and honest relationship. Their Christmas experience has never been like ours and shes regretted it ever since.

Jo