Would you do it? This time next year Stormy may be a newborn, or I may be heavily pregnant. To celebrate her 60th, my mum wants to take the family overseas, 4hr plane trip, to stay in a big villa.

DH says if that's what we do, wait a year for Stormy. Yeah, waited 7 years already, not happening.

So do I smile and say nothing, let my mum spend lots if money then find out my edd is during the hols? Tell my mum and get her to postpone, but she knows we're ttc? Fall pg straight away and get a passport for a tiny, maybe month old baby and escape the country (DH reckons I'll still be recovering from hospital: I did not laugh when he said that, as he let me know where he's planning to be for the birth, which is good to know).

What to do?