Thank you all. Ttc is happening v soon, but I will feel guilty if the holiday changes cos of me. It is also with my sis, bil and their baby. They pulled out the last time we tried it, but before the villa was booked.

I told dh we can't bank on fertility, espesh as we're 7 years older now, but he won't believe me, he has my mat leave all planned out. And I would happily take a little baby on hols, but he wouldn't. (1m easier than 10m, imo, less stuff to carry, food to worry about, falling when walking etc.)

Guess I will just wait and see and keep quiet. But Stormy will *never* be called an accident. I was asked that about Liebs and it hurts so much. I could never call my child that, nor let others think that.