So we have decided to go to Vanuatu as the flights are short, its cheaper and seems like a smaller place to get around.
We are on a tight budget so it seems like the best option. We would mainly just like to hang on the beach/pools, eat nice food, relax and spend family time together.

Fiji and Thailand would have been wonderful but we will go to Thailand when the boys are bigger as DH's uncle is married to a lovely thai lady and they have an apartment in Bangkok and also a house on a farm out in the country. So that would be nice but I want the boys to remember that holiday :-)

Going to book it all now! Any tours or sight seeing on this small island anyone recommends?