Thanks Prama,

I am going to take Mums stroller - one of the cheaper fold up ones, i dont think i am allowed to wheel my P&T's right up to the door (what did you have?)

Great suggestion about the train, when we are in Malaysia, i know that this sounds mean, but i am going to wake her if she is sleeping and make her move, she is usually pretty good if she is woken, but i think that it is fairer on her that she sleeps on the plane than other places kwim

i have booked a Child's meal for her, i wouldnt be keen on the nuggets and fries either - i will check on that one as that is not something that i would think will help her quieten down... good food that she devours helps her sleep and be content, stuff that is full of preservatives and sugars, well, i know what she will be like and i dont think that there will be many on the plane that will appreciated it! Great point, i will check that with them
I am planning on taking some fruit, saltanas, rice crackers and other things to nibble on, should i take something more substantial do you think?
thanks again