YEP! I actually bit the bullet and spent money on Hot Milk stuff last month (after not having ANY new undies since Jazz was born!) and I felt so guilty I threw up. I also walk around the shops with things I want, and then put them back before I leave. I won $60 worth of Big W vouchers (yeah, not THAT much) and I let Shel spend it on her and Jazz... I'd love to be able to spend on me but I just feel selfish, I'd rather know Shel and Jazz get what they need/want.