I was gobsmacked tbh. And humiliated. A little while later I sent them both text messages to say how disappointed and embarrassed I was, and that I couldn't trust them to be unsupervised in our house anymore. I rarely tell people off, I generally just dwell on it and make myself upset, so they were quite embarrassed and apologetic. I felt like slapping them though

HB - Think of it this way: even if you lock sensitive stuff away, it's gonna be on your mind while you're on holiday, and it will spoil it for you. So tell your DH too bad, you're picking someone else