SJ, I'm sorry you rant getting cherished at home.... That isn't cool. My dh makes jokes about me only not moaning about something for about two weeks in the middle of pregnancy. But I do feel cherished and card for and I guess that is the difference cos I don't resent it. Like you I think he wouldn't not moan if he had to do this work. Hugs lovely. I hope back to school brings you a new measure of down time