Freya, the insensitive comments sure do keep on coming, most from strangers which is worse because who are they to comment on my life . I am sorry people think it okay to say things like that to you.

I met with a midwife today. I need to chat with DH when he gets home but I know she is the one if we go ahead (99% sure it will). I had an appointment with another MW next week but just from phone conversations and email, she did not feel right so I just cancelled and she seemed a bit annoyed, I thought it best not to waste our time but her reaction made the choice valid.