Have/Did you tell people you were planning a homebirth? Did you tell everyone or choose who you told? I have talked about it before i was pregnant, but now i'm not sure i want to tell people. However, i really don't want to lie about it yet know people often ask 'which hospital are you going to?'. For now, i could say i am checking out the birth centre (which i am, but i already know i am not going there).

i just dont think it's really anybody's business, and don't want to deal with their issues with it.

what did you do?