Eutra. I truly hope your fears are unfounded. But, I am worried too. I have not found an IM yet. I am nearly 16 wks, so I know there is time. But I am feeling demoralised and worried. I can see why some IM's are giving away 'homebirthing'. I really don't blame them - what a horrible climate to be working in.
I really hope all is well with your midwife professionally and that she is merely suffering from a cold rather than harrassment and intimidation.