Good plan, Eutra, nice and brief. I'm planning on something similar (only in case of transfer).

The only other thing I am going to add, after a recommendation from my HB get together the other day, was to be given 10 minutes to discuss any suggested intervention with my DP and m/w. Apparently that usually goes down well and takes some of the emotion out of both sides of the bed. Also eases the pressure to make a decision immediately.

GL!

Hope you find a way to bring it up with your gf without drama. Sounds tough.