See, in my case ppl were only interested in knowing details before the birth. And all that they wanted to know were worst case scenario plans. Annoyingly, once I had M, no one was interested . I found that very few wanted to hear how perfect it was. At MG, 2 of us had babies a week apart...they only wanted the other girls details.I think in their minds asuccessful HB just cannot be real ITMS. I was devastated as our group is so close but on this one, they couldn't comprehend just how amazing and life changing it was for me.