Yeah I was lucky in that my mum can help out. I think it's appalling what our government is doing to women's choices in respect to birthing. No one has the right to tell you what to do and I think that as is with anything in life - if the risks are measured and managed - why can't this be just as safe as a hospital birth?

Ok - as for the new posts, when you go to the main page of a forum, in the top left hand side you'll see a little button that says "new thread" - just click on that and you'll have a blank thread template.

Once you've finished what you wanted to write, hit "submit thread" and you'll be right