Cat, my mw has a team number I called on Wednesday. I see her next on 10th March, 34w. Will call again next Wednesday. I work Monday, Tuesday, Thursday so can't call then.

Trillian, I don't know if these people are abusive or human. I need to know. I don't meet them pre-birth, I don't know, I have to freebirth. And while I'm very happy with that being an option, DH and I are not happy about it being the only one. They have no choice though, my midwife told me screw hospital: I say I'm homebirthing, they have to attend, those are the rules. I like her.

DH is already talking about hospital transfer and hospital birth if the hb team keep this up. Only if I am unconscious or about to die. And tbh, dying would be better for my mental health. But we've agreed he cannot override me unless I'm unconcious, which is the legal ruling here, only he didn't know that last time.