This was the biggest thing people went on about "how didnt i go into shock"?

well because i had had a rather quick one before and had been warned it would be even quicker next time, So i was mentally prepared as well as physically!

You poor thing, it must have/is a huge thing to process!
my first birth was an induction, and once waters broke it was quick. but not the 20 min labour i had with ree.

i had 2nd degree tear which healed amazingly quickly as well.

hope all goes well this time tegam