I seem to have had a different experience to what some of you are describing as the norm in a hospital, particularly private hospital.
When I arrived, they asked me if I was interested in any pain relief. I said 'I'd rather not, lets see how we go'. Meds were never mentioned again, there was no pressure about my decision and there was no big deal made about being brave, that it would be hard etc. I was encouraged the whole way through.

I thought it was interesting when watching One Born Every Minute USA, women are offered an epi as soon as they feel any discomfort. They said that less than 5% of women in their hospital attempt a natural birth. When 1 lady came in saying she'd like to try naturally, the midwife was very surprised and told her how brave she is and that she could change her mind at any time. The midwives then sat around outside discussing that she was going to try to give birth naturally, like it was unheard of.

I was talking to 2 women the other day who are not TTC just yet, because they are scared of what pregnancy will do to their bodies and the pain of labour.
1 said - I just think births with an epi seem calmer and nicer. I'd prefer to have a baby in a nice environment like that.
The other said - I already know I can't do it without drugs (How??) and I don't want to breastfeed so I'm going to take a pill to stop my milk coming through
I don't understand how people can be willing to make such big decisions without any experience - maybe it's based on all the horror stories?