Thankyou ladies It is much appreciated I ahve four children and all pregnancy trouble free. I am hoping that she has had such a crappy pregnancy the least she could wish for is a trouble free delivery. I am hoping to be a support and will take on board your suggestions... Thanks heaps oh what to do now no sleep for any of us tonight. So exiting but need to remain focused. So hard to see your children in pain so hope I am a support and stick to the plan with her. Cheers