thanks for your advice ladies...

I have thought about letting it go a couple of days and getting the monitoring.. but then i think i don't want to risk anything just to have the birth i want.. so i don't know really..

My baby has been in the same position for at least 8 weeks now and i really don't feel that he is going to budge at all..

I was only a size 8 before i fell pregnant.. but have put on alot of weight.. but having said that, my bone structure and size would still be a size 8.. but the weight gain is fat and water retention my belly is absolutely HUGE.. and its hard to move around so i'm guessing he is a very big baby.. which does scare me a bit too.. (if all that makes any sense at all)

I really don't want to have to go through labour and then have it turn into a emergency c/s because he is just too big to fit.. and i certainly don't want to risk any harm to my son (shoulder distosia (sp?) etc) by trying to birth him naturally..

I just wish i knew what was going to happen.. and then i could relax and accept it and get on with what i have to do to make sure my son arrives safely..

ever since i found out i was pg.. i just knew he would be born via c/s and that feeling is still with me.. so maybe i might be right after all... either way as long as he is ok.. thats all that matters to me.