just wanted to add also that the Ob i saw who scheduled in my induction wanted me to go in at 41 days and i was a bit iffy about it. he said well how about we give you an extra 3 days then so i went in at 41+3. it was as if he was doing me a favour by letting me have those extra few days. i think cause it was my first pregnancy i just went with what he said even though i wanted to wait longer and they sorta scare you into it too with the risks of leaving you go.