I don't think IVF is a reason to be induced early (and 39 weeks is still early). If it were me (and I had IVF and went post-dates) I would refuse the induction unless there was some reason for it.
I was induced at 42 weeks with DS and I kinda regret it still. He was fine, not overcooked at all and my placenta was ok too. That's me, everyone is different of course, but if you're being monitored and there are no other complications then it's probably not necessary. And an unnecessary induction is only likely to cause even more problems for you. And, the earlier you have the induction the more likely it is that you'll run into trouble because your body just isn't ready. If there are no signs of readiness then you're not really 'favourable' for induction anyway, so the risk of ending up with a ceasar is greatly increased.
My induction was 'ok' - DS went into distress and I had to have a forceps delivery.
I think the most important thing is that you make the decision yourself and are happy with it. Don't get pushed into anything you're not comfortable with, kwim?
EDD is no reason to induce hun - and trust me - if bubs isn't ready to come out, it will start the spiral of intervention and you'll end up with more and more happening simply cos body and baby aren't ready. i was induced a few days before EDD due to PE (so there was a reason for it) - and it ended in c/s - i don't regret it (cos i got my girl safely - the PE didn't progress) - but i wouldn't have done it just to have her on EDD. she was an AC bubba too so we knew EDD exactly - i don't consider that a good reason to induce (and your OB shouldn't either!)
I rang the hospital and spoke to the midwife yesterday, rang my sister in law (who is a GP) and spoke to her as well. You are all right in that it comes down to my preference. DH is keen on the induction but indicates that it is up to me because I will have to do most of the work.
PrincessXanThe - I guess my biggest fear is stillbirth and I really want my bub to be safe... she will definitely be safer if she is delievered and in my arms right now! . My OB probably senses my anxiety throughout this pregnancy and that is probably the reason why he suggested it (and probably it is more convenient for him if it was planned during his hospital round anyway).
BG, Marcellus and Babywannabe, thanks for sharing your experience, I guess everyone is different in their experiences. However, I do know one thing from reading and talking to everyone - induction would be more painful and could be more traumatic.
After careful consideration, I think I will wait for another week if required. And as suggested by Cassius2 and Preagainpan I will request for monitoring. Hopefully I won't have to worry and bub would come out soon.
Sounds good Kahlan. Have you seen some of the BellyBelly articles? I think there are a few on induction, and labour in general so you can continue to inform yourself.
Kahlan - it has to be really tough to go through the trials of AC and then wait for 9 months to meet your bubba. But you are nearly there!!! I think the monitoring is a really good idea, if only for your peace of mind. The articles on BB are great and will tell you about what commonly happens when labour is induced. Hopefully s/he decides to make an entrance sooner rather than later .
For those who are interested. I have given birth to a beautiful girl on the 8th of July. All natural. I am so glad, I'd waited. Went into labour at 2 am and delivered her at 12:06, weighing 3.44 kg, 47 cm. long. She is well and I am slowly adapting to the demand of motherhood!
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The waiting can be hard hey. But the girls have given you good counsel, if things are well, then maybe let bub choose his/her own birthday.
. My OB probably senses my anxiety throughout this pregnancy and that is probably the reason why he suggested it (and probably it is more convenient for him if it was planned during his hospital round anyway).
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