FionaJill, just wanted to thank you for that info from the ABA, seeing as my post was one 'disagreeing' with you and sparking this new direction. The ABA is spot on: nowadays in modern western society there is a widespread and vastly exaggerated assumption that BF may not be possible, but of course in the vast majority of cases it is. Gee, how did we ever get to such a state of collective belief?!?!