Oh Yolie, how sad for you that your youngest self weaned so early..

I have said to myself that in this second year I will encourage feeding, but if he replaced food with milk and self- weaned I would allow him, but to be honest I would find it devastating..especially the thought of all those antibodies not getting in!
After 2 I plan not to encourage but not discourage IYKWIM, and allow him to chose when to self wean(unless for some reason I decide to stop)..somehow I think we're going to be in it for the long haul as he's a VERY enthusiastic feeder still