Firstly I am so glad I boycotted the nurses at 4 months...

Seth didn't even want to start solids until 10 months! 3 meals at 6 months is just crazy. I would honestly go by baby, forget what they say. If she's not overly interested don't worry about it. If she's thriving, with good nappies its fine. She will get there in the end. Seth certainly isn't anemic or have any speech issues, and he's not obese either. What a load of crap I tell you.

Now I do have something for you to do. Go and stand in front of a mirror. And smile and nod, keep doing this until you feel confident enough to do it in person