I was BF for 6 months. Can't remember it, of course. My brother 4 months and I was almost 3 when my mum weaned him due to mastitis - the advice at the time was that you have to stop BFing I can't remember seeing him BF either.

Before I had DD I planned to BF for 6-12 months. Not longer. She ended up self-weaning at 19 months. I was happy to keep it going, but I was pregnant and must have had supply issues as she just lost interest. Since her brother was born, she has had the odd feed here and there and although it is always a little strange, I cherish those moments. For now, it seems she can remember and she does so fondly. I love how she tries to BF her brother when he cries and her baby doll. She definitely sstill seems to get the idea that it is soomething nice and calming.

I would love her to remember it. I love remembering the unforgettable moments of love I had with her while BFing her. It makes me all teary. I hope that if she remembers how she breastfed, she will remember how much her mother loves her and that nothing in this world will ever come between us, because of the bond we forged in those early years. If she remembers, I hope that it will give her security and emotional stability.
As Barb said: why wouldn't you want them to remember?

Alex
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