Nah Snacks I didn't take it that way at all, everyone's responses have been reassuring. No doubt I'll have more trouble adjusting to her in care than she will! I think it's mainly the whole can't seem to express dilemma that is freaking me out a little, as in if she does need EBM I might not be able to have it for her, but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.

Thanks