Thanks heaps for the responses everyone!!.. its reassuring to know that there are others out there reaching the 3yo milestone as well.. My GP thinks the fact that I still BF is pretty much unheard of, which I find interesting. Its funny... I always said I would probably wean Eva by 2yrs... then it turned into 2.5, and now I tell myself 3. I just am not sure that if I follow her lead it will happen anytime soon, and I really think that *I* am ready for it to happen soon. I like the idea of a gentle transition, so I may have to really think creatively, as DD is very strong willed, and I really don't want us to argue about her having 'boo', or have her crying or tantruming about it... I know thats not fair, I can see what a comfort thing it is for her.