Thanks for your replies everyone .

I do 'know' that all is normal with DS. OP, I think you're spot on - it's more about me adjusting to my baby (well, toddler actually) not needing me as much anymore. I think it's hard for me too, because it happened so quickly that he dropped feeds.

Starrysky - you're right - I think I am a bit scared that if I didn't offer, DS would just not want any (well except for in the middle of the night ).

Shanti: Thanks - glad it's all normal.

Thanks for your replies - I feel better knowing it's all normal. I guess we'll just keep doing what we're doing .