Hey Kaz, I've been thinking about you and I've got more advice (are you sick of me yet ). You said you've got no near by family/support. You need to talk to your DH (now, I suggest) about what you're going to do when your DS gets sick, because it will happen. Who is going to take time off work to look after him. I personally don't think it should always default to the mother but if you're still BFing then I can understand that you would want to be with your DS when he's sick.

It's great that you're still BFing and if you can get him through his first winter in daycare still being BF it will be even better! DS's first winter in daycare and not being BF was hell for us. He was constantly sick!!! DD's first winter in daycare she was still being BF and she only got sick a couple of times. I'm not saying that BFing will stop your DS getting sick but it's such magic stuff, it would have to help I reckon!