We seem to have concluded a journey that has gone for over 6 years for me.
DD2 managed fine while i was away for the weekend, and after nearly 2.5 years of feeding to sleep, then made the transition to her own bed without even asking.
While I'm sad it's over forever, I am totally ready. I had had enough a long time ago. She has asked a couple of times in the wee hours but didn't even fuss when I said no. Just rolled over and went back to sleep.
While it wasn't totally baby led, it was gentle enough.