i think he is communicating with you as best as a 12 month old can!

i'm sure if he DOES want breastmilk, you'll know about it, he'll point, or gesture or let you know somehow.

I would just leave the offer open, breakfast and go to bed time - if he takes you up on that - fine, if he doesn't, still fine.

He'll be your darling bub whether he weans or not, it just might happen earlier than you thought.

Congrats on the 12 months, that's great.

Sometimes, bubs make up for feeding poorly whilst sick, to feeding heaps AFTERWARDS to rebuild their strength. it's hard to struggle to breathe AND feed at the same time.

i think you and he will work this out, purely by time passing.