Perhaps you could just explain to her that if you skip a feed you'd need to get out the pump and express anyway, therefore not saving yourself any time and adding extra hassle. She's only trying to be helpful, I'm sure, but many people don't understand the physical implications of bfing.
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I still remember when DD missed her first night time feed, she was about 6 weeks old and I lay there begging her to wake up so the pain would go away. Not as simple as skipping a feed as people think.