I think sometimes even setting boundaries can help you feed longer as you will be less likely to just get over it all and make a snap decision.

I did similar towards the end of DD2's pregnancy with DD1 as my aversion was at an all time high and I just could not handle feeding all the time. I also made an attempt to night wean but as soon as there was tears I couldn't do it, in the end she started sleeping through a month before DD2 came along so at around 2yrs 9months and I was so glad I hadn't pushed it just that little bit earlier. She never seemed distressed with the limitations in the day so I felt completely comfortable doing so. I will add that when DD2 was born I went back to feeding on demand for a week or two because I knew it would be a difficult adjustment time having a new sister and sharing 'her' milk but after a few days of feeding everytime the baby did (which was actually quite good for bringing in my supply and assisting with engorgement) she happily dropped back to her usual morning and night feed.

It doesn't have to lead to weaning, DD1 has been having the 2 feeds for months and months. She still seems keen, every morning she comes to me and shows me 2 fingers and asks for her morning feed. Then before bed it is one finger and a feed off to sleep. Somedays she does still ask during the day, I imagine it is mostly because she sees DD2 feeding and is reminded but I just explain that she has teeth and DD2 does not so that is why DD2 has lots of milk because she can't have exciting things like DD1 has then she can pick something else to eat using her crunchy teeth like a carrot. No tears at all yet so figure she isn't traumatized!

DD1 is 3 now and no signs of stopping. We also implemented asking nicely too as we would with anything else she was asking for and as DD1 has speech difficulties we need to encourage the 'mmm' sound so any excuse!