It's probably within the realms of normal. The usual recommendation is to start introducing solids at 6mnths, though I notice the fad for introducing solids at 4 mnths has taken off. So, your little one is not much beyond the normal age for beginning solids. It also seems like there is a family trend for not being able to take solids until a little later. I'm wondering, is your little one breastfed or bottlefed? Is there any history of food allergies or intolerances in your families? Babies often have an instinct for what won't agree with them. How is his health overall? And, literally, what would you do about it? It seems like your baby has a quite active gag reflex, but with him, more than anyone, you can't force him to eat. Like most caring mums you are responding to your child's needs appropriately, not *creating bad hadbits* (and let's face it most bad habits these days stem from over-eating) For personal experience, my daughter Cassie, now 12, didn't really eat anything until she was 10mnths, and then never off a spoon - she had to do it herself.
See if you can track down a book "My child won't eat" but a Spanish (I think) paediatrician, and a very encouraging and supportive read. If you are really worried about your child's health, then see a doctor
WE are doing BLS and started at 6 months. My LO used to gag on everything and projectile vomit with many things too. She was willing to try stuff, but after a gag that was it. She didn't like gagging and so wouldn't try anymore food. I just went slowly somedays i wouldn't offer anything (maybe i am lazy?), other days more. And one day (just after 8 months) something clicked and the gagging stopped (still happens occassionally) and she was more willing to try stuff.
I think her gag reflex was still really strong and it wasn't until it settled down that she was able to experience the good things about food. Hope that helps.
We're also doing BLS and my DD is looking like a bit of a slow starter as well. I have had a chat to some of the ABA counsellors at my support meeting and many of them have told me that their babies (and many other women who they speak to) don't show real interest until they are around the 1 year mark.
I just keep offering her food at every meal - and we do morning and arvo teas too - just so she at least gets the practice in. She is slowllyyyyyyyy getting there.
I don't have the happy ending though, as we're not there yet. But it's good to know that you're not alone xxxx
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