Thanks ladies. That does answer my question and I feel like we're 'right' with the occasional (prob once a week) drink of low-fat milk. Sorry to harp on though... just wanting to FULLY understand so i can make conscious choices about her diet...

Do toddlers who are still BF (like I said, usually 3-5 times per day) and have a balanced diet including dairy still need the fats from cows milk? DD would eat me out of house and home if she had free access to the fridge! She's a great little eater and will have fruit, veg, cereal, cheese, yoghurt, bread, pasta every day. She also eats stuff with 'good fats' like avocado, fish and stuff that I cook with olive oil. Just wonderin'!

Thanks again!