Oh hon, I know how this feels. DH and I were the first to get married, buy a house and now have a baby and it's a lonely world. None of our friends are even in any relationship thats been longer than a few months, so even "couples" dinners don't happen. We were the weird ones who moved in together (at 21) and got married (at 25) and now had a baby (at 29). DH doesn't find it so difficult but I think that's because he's at work all day, interacting with people, where I'm home. The friends (maybe two) that I still see fairly regularly can't figure it out much, they like kids, they just don't get it. I had a friend bolt for home just because I put DD in the bath. I didn't join a mother's group, hindsight suggests that I probably should have. I think for me though, I'm past these friends. I have nothing in common with them. But loneliness makes me want to hang on.

Finding mummy friends is hard, but I'm on the hunt. I hope you can find some too.

Corelly x