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thread: Advice and Suggestions needed. Can you help me please?

  1. #19
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    even though i never finished my education i have landed jobs that even my friends whom have done their HSC havent..
    ive worked for optus in their techincal team ive worked for nrma, also have worked for the australian taxation office..
    i think that if they cant get their education as they please they should be reminded that determination and confidence will always shine through when it comes to being career wise..

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    Another thing I thought of was a 'Buddy' system, where parents can be attached to another parent/s with experience possibly (but not necessary). This might encourage more personal friendships to develop and realistic support fostering more positive parenting and self esteem. Oh this is just so exciting Sunshine!!

  3. #21
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    Can I ask (this is going to be a very naive question and sound horrible i'm sure) did anyone feel any type of resentment towards their bubs? Because you may not have been able to do all the things your friends were doing??

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    i think i did in a way, i wanted to finish school and go to uni i had so many plans and was the one who never wanted children, but now i have 4 lol..
    i didnt resent them i just was disappointed that i had them so early being 16 i never got to do what my friends where i never got to go to my school formals, or out with my friends and be free itms?
    i wa=ouldnt change anything but i do wish i had of been alot more smarter in my choices and desicions..

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    this is going to sound bad but i resented my friends more. As they would play things with me and at the last min uninvite me. eg we planned to go late night shopping nothing spesh but i was so looking forward to it and at the last min they invited someone else and i got left behind so i resented them for it.

  6. #24
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    omg family!! that was me too!! and their excuse, oh i knew you wouldnt be able to come anyway... says who!!
    i lost so many friends when ds was born and even more when ds2 waas born.. felt so crappy... but now they are all having families they say they understand...

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    Another thing I thought of was a 'Buddy' system, where parents can be attached to another parent/s with experience possibly (but not necessary). This might encourage more personal friendships to develop and realistic support fostering more positive parenting and self esteem. Oh this is just so exciting Sunshine!!
    Thanks Sunny - is this an area that many people think would be good?

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    Submission is in.... fingers crossed now we get it - then i'll be back asking more question

  9. #27
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    ooooooooo how exciting lol GL hun!!

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    good luck!

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    If dealing with pregnant young mums I think it is important to inform them of their rights, especially in maternity care. So often I read that their concerns are dismissed, that they are treated like children and not taken seriously. They may be young but they have had to grow up.

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    If dealing with pregnant young mums I think it is important to inform them of their rights, especially in maternity care. So often I read that their concerns are dismissed, that they are treated like children and not taken seriously. They may be young but they have had to grow up.
    So true and spot on!!
    I was thinking about this thread yesterday lol
    Was wondering how the submission went?


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