Thanks guys!!

Had a chat with DH and he let me know that I have no backbone!! He said that I need to stand up for myself (or us) when it comes to my family as doesn't think it is his place - which is fair enough. According to DH I am trying to please too many people when I should be just worried about us! Who knew I had such a sensible DH on my hands!!!

I am sure everything will be fine. Saw Dad on the weekend and it wasn't too bad. He still dropped comments but we could ignore those ones. I was just really frustrated on Friday as if we were in our late twenties then everyone would be saying have kids!! But because we in our early twenties they are trying to find every excuse for us not to. And I can't really wait to long any way as early menopause runs in our family (35 years - 45 years) and I'd rather not take the chance!

Once again thanks!