was he there when your DS was born? seeing your partener go through so much can be very traumatic for guys and maybe he is trying to deal with that still. it happenes more than we realise! seeing you in so much pain would have made him feel helpless and all he wanted to do was be able to make the pain go away. he may just be scared of putting you through the pain of childbirth again iykwim.

Yeah, he was there. He said it was the most stressful day of his life! Seeing me in pain he said was very hard for him, and very scary. he wanted to take my pain away but couldnt! he felt helpless - exactly what you said.

We had a talk last night, things seem okay atm. He knows we are having a few issues, and we vow to work them out! I love him, we dont want to lose eachother, i guess its just hrad finding a balance sometimes, cos i like watching my shows, he doesnt so he plays xbox then i get annoyed... and then we argue over it! But we working things out!

Thanks girls.. appreciate ur help! Juts nice to 'talk' to someone.