iykwim: if you know what i mean

He definately needs to grow up! His family, hmmm most are nice and supportive, ect. his mum is a B!tch. She seems to always be in a cow of a mood. and she doesn't teach her kids anything, they are supposed to grow up and move out and she hasnt taught them to cook or clean up after themselves. There is a 21, 19 and 16 yo at home and she does all their washing and runs arround picking up their plates and rubbish ect. Now they expect that from their partners, which makes it bloody hard for me!!!