hi im new here and i have just turned 17, i took a preg test last sunday as i had missed my period and i had a feeling something was up, it came back possitive but my partner and i have yet to make a doctors appointment but one will be made next week some time, i reckon i would be around the 6 week mark and im scared out of my mind. so i thought the best way to destress myself is to inform myself and that is how i found this website.
p.s congratulations to all the new mus
Hi Princess Walkee, congratulations on your pregnancy!
You will find everyone here very accepting and supportive.
Have you told your parents yet? Wherabouts do you live? Do you have msn?
You can add me by clickign the little blue man on the top right corner of this post and it will come up with my msn address.
No i havent told my mum yet and live in queensland, only 3 people other than my partner and i know about it they are my partners best mate and his best mates parents, i just want to see the doctor first and fnd out how far along i definately am, and we alrady had a idea before the test and it was pre decided that there was no other option but to become young parents, im very scared and not sure how my mum will take it coz she is a little hypocritical. thanks for all the support everyone
Sometimes your parents surprise you... but i understand how tough it is thinking about it in the beginning.
If you're looking to source some comebacks to the parents then im sure we can help
Can I ask if your parents know that you are sexually active?
I find the best way to shove it in their face is that is they know you just tell them
"Pregnancy is a risk/possible outcome of having sex. We're aware of this and we made this decision consciously, and if you're not okay with me being pregnant then you shouldnt be okay with me having sex". Probably easier said than done, I know, but it is the most truthful and still respectable way to put it.
We will be behind you all the way.
Princess Walkee, welcome!! Congratulations cookiemonster is right... sometimes your parents cant react totally different to what you expect. I expected my dad to be upset... but he was so proud
no my mum doesnt know that my partner and i were having sex and its sounds mean but if she has a hissy i can throw back in her face tha fact she was married and had a son by her 17th birthday, i just keep saying to my partner that im scared thats why i came looking for a forum to join so i kinda have a better idea of what is gonna happen, and people that understand my emotional state
Ohh i see. Well I don't think she really has a right to judge... no body ever does but that i even more of a reaosn she shouldn't.
My mum had me at 18 so i knew she couldnt criticise, i was moreso worried as she was pregnant too and what if something went wrong. Wow, so how old is your mum then (if you dont mind me asking?)
hey princess and welcome darl! i know its scary but we are with u the whole way. Just take it one day at a time and rest up. Its a beautiful thing to be pregnant and expecting a bub. Good luck and i look forward to getting to know u better mwah xox
well i had my appointment.. My BP has gone back down to 130/75 which is great. Bubs hb was around 180 but that was just after the midwife felt around and moved her head. My lil girl doesnt like to be disturbed! lol! Everything else looked good. My specialist came and seen me and said that im fine to continue on with my normal appointment with my midwife but if things start to go abit hay wire again, he wants me bcak in there. Im fine with that Um, her head is nice and low which is exciting! just 6 more weeks... i cant wait!!! that reminds me i have to go buy a hospital bag!!
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cookiemonster is right... sometimes your parents cant react totally different to what you expect. I expected my dad to be upset... but he was so proud
mwah xox
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