Skye and Sally, I am so sorry you guys had to go through that.It must be very hard.I can't even imagine having to make that choice and the strength you both must have had.Skye, to be forced! That is horrible!
i was ***** scared to tel my parents as i didnt know how they would react! so we bought a little key chain that said " I LOVE GRANDMA" & wrapped it & gave it to her then she gave us the whole lecture about everything but then she got over the inital shock she calmed down & we talked about it civilised!
Im sue after the inital shock they will be fine about it..it just takes awhile to get used to!
Honestly, it doesn't bother me as much as it used to. If I didn't terminate that pg I wouldn't have Jazmyne. I fell pg with her just 3 months later. So when would've been about 5 months pg.
Skye I wasn't forced it was a decision I made, my ex(the father) raped me over the course of our relationship, i couldn't bring a child into the world with my mental state.
Thats so horrible Sally.
That was kinda another thing that I think now its best the way it was. I was raped about a month before I fell pg the first time. DH & had been together for 6 months. It wasn't him, but looking back I know mentally I couldn't have done it. I was only 16 when it happened. I fell pg about a week before my 17th b'day.
I have 2 daughters now. I can't let them out of my sight. I'll probably be a nervouse wreck when they are teenagers.
Skye and Sally, im so sorry, i have never had that happen to me but my sister has.
Skye- i feel the same as you about when my girls get bigger, i just hope they are like me and stay at home and do their homework or just have sleepovers with friends and resist the nightclubs and parties. I'm gonna be pulling my hair out, i can see it now.
I dread the thought of my son doing something like that, he will be taught how to treat women properly!!
As for having girls, i totally understand, although these days no-one is safe It's so sad, especially when it's children involved.
So anyway, I said i'd be back to talk a bit more, so here i am.. lol.. I am depressed, I went to see a dr yesterday but when i told DP, he flipped out thinking it was because of him, so i haven't been but will make an appointment for next week. I hate feeling the way i do and i dont want to. I'm happy with my life....
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I wasn't forced it was a decision I made, my ex(the father) raped me over the course of our relationship, i couldn't bring a child into the world with my mental state.
It's so sad, especially when it's children involved.
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