Kirra, sorry to hear you and travis had an argument. maybe he will get over the initial shock of not being there and then he will be fine, or maybe could you have him and your mum or him and your sister in there? i know some hospitals let you have two support people.
Alyssa's arm doesnt sound good, if its not better by monday maybe take her to the docs.
Sally, thats not good that brendan isnt getting better but your right i spose its good that hes not getting worse.
wonder how jesska's first day went at work...
billy and i had a bit of a falling out this afternoon too coz he wants to get a second job to pay the bills, were just scraping by now but he wants to have savings and be on top of things, its makes me feel bad coz i dont want to work and i feel like i should put my hand up to work. i know its prob being selfish but i want to be at home with maddie. My old boss from when we lived her 2 years ago said if she ever needs me for big events and stuff she will call me in but it might only be 1 or 2 days here and there. which sounds alot better than having rostered days coz then i would start to dread it.
Amy if he wants to do it, then dont feel bad. IMHO you are better off staying home with Maddie, I would hate to have been at work for Brendan 1sts. I just couldn't imagine the thought of missing out on him developing. Maybe you could get a night job if you really have to? Is there a supermarket that does night fill? that way it's only a few hrs and if you only want 1 day i'm sure you'll be able to do just one day. Maybe even if he gets a 2nd job just for a few months, get some savings in the bank and then go back to normal? I think I can see his point of view of wanting to support his family, it would suck having less time together though. It's a tough one, but good luck with whatever you decide to do.
hey yeah, its coles, they have night fill positions available, especially coming up to summer when dunsborough is just packed with people holidaying. he wants to get night fill there. i just dont know if i want to work at all. i said to him tonight that i feel bad that he wants to earn some more money and that i dont want to work and he said to me that he doesnt mind, he said his job is to earn the money to pay rent, bills, food etc. and that my job is to stay at home and look after maddie, clean the house and cook him dinner (lol so old fashioned but i dont mind) and that his extra job will just be temporary until we get ontop of things and only a couple of nights a week. so basically exactly what you said is happening lol.
thanks for the advice though.
So because i was feeling pretty bad that i didnt want to work i tidied the house imaculately coz there was still stuff lying around from the move and made sure dinner was ready and everything for him and he told me i was the best gf ever! lol i told him that i would remind him of that next time he is in a grumpy mood lol.
I read your story this arvo from that link you put up with the photos and all. its a great story, i always wondered why he had been born so early but always forgot to ask so now i know. Your a very talented writer!
Well im off to watch telethon. Want to donate but we have no money.
Speak soon xx
Still kinda not talking to DP, he upset me and then when i walked off he told me 'to go have a cry' which i did. lol.
He is def going to be there no question about that its just i dont think he realises its gonna be that bit harder than it was with alyssa because im not gonna be sleeping between contractions, i think i'll talk to him today, he seems like he is in a better mood and i am less emotional.
Trav is getting a second job too, he's just started looking, and yes i feel awful too and if i could i would be the one to go do nightfill or work but puting the girls in creche will cost just as much money as i would earn so its a waste and being pregaz and then planning to bf i cant exactly work can i..
I feel bad but he is like billy and wants to save a really big deposit. We aren't struggling but we cant exactly save much either so all the money he earns from this 2nd job will go directly into savings for our deposit.
Try not to feel so bad amy, (i know easier said than done) but if he wants to and it was his idea its not like your pushing him into it, if you got a job you would be paying through the roof for childcare and it wouldnt be worth it.
Hope everyones having a better weekend than me. lol. I'm off to play Mario party on the Wii with alyssa. hehe
good afternoon ladies!! im just enjoying me banana and mango smoothie... mm yum
and just got back from some DFO shopping!! i love shopping..... bought a dress and shoes for my friends 20th this weekend and another dress, just to bum around in... and bought brendie some shorts. good gf i am
this weekend must have been it for fights with the bfs..... full moon or SOMETHING haha...
i had a fight with Brendie on friday night! long story! basically about him going out (which i let him when i didnt really wanna so i was sooking anyway coz i feel bad to say no to him!) and then we ended up arguing coz i was picking at things like about him going to buy hair wax... lol so i told him hes a sh*t head lol... and that i would rather him F off and leave us alone! lol... didnt mean it obviously! he sucked up when he got home though hehe
Kirra, did u guys work out a birth solution? damn boys... they one track minded huh! i mean in not realising that it wont b the same as alyssa.... hopefully u work out a resolution
Amy, i think thats super sweet of him to be wanting to get a job for ur future etc. at least hes not wanting to spend his money on alcohol like some guys do at this age!! ... i say this as my bf is at his friends drinking and watching the grand final...
work was fantastic! cant wait to go tomorrow. i almost couldnt go tomorrow! couldnt find a babysitter but i finally found one. my girls daycare, they go with my friend to her daycare half an hour away! and shes not working tomorrow so they couldnt go. im going to change their daycare to one in my suburb tho coz i cant risk this happening again!!
oh and kirra i hear u on the nasty comments about crying. i get that ALOT... brendie cant stand it if i cry, sometimes he sympathises .. if hes done something real wrong but if its over like an argument he says silly things n thinks im over reacting n stuff!
Hey girls. Haven't been on much cz I have been so sick with a respitory infection.
XP has been staying with us to look after DS for me cz I couldnt even touch him and DS is loving it. XPs been great though and has been looking after me aswell so I cant complain. If things keep going this way I can definately see us getting back together.
Hope everyones well
lol... didnt mean it obviously! he sucked up when he got home though hehe
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