ok thanks charlotte oh did u hate being an only child!? i LOVED it! and my mum was a single mum too, it was soooo awsome!? i reckon being a single mum is easy too lol, not that im doing it ALL by myself now lol but pretty much! dp is at work 6 days a week and he doesnt come over everynight. but i like it like that... maybe its cuz jays like a little angel lol...